Дата публикации: 2017-06-12 05:06
Most men look awful - they have no idea how bad they look. The only pairs I see working of imbalanced age is an older man with a troubled woman who couldn't obtain a man around her age, so she is forced to 'age up'. I can also see wealthy men obtaining gold diggers as a pattern - this has always been true.
I'm funny, engaged, and focus on the woman that I'm with. If it works, she's mine for life. If it doesn't, it's easy to find a new mate. I carry that attitude with me to keep pressure off certain moments that may be uncomfortable.
If there has to be 'social acceptability' in dating, it should be that you date someone who is neither enough to be your child nor old enough to be your parent.
Where it concerns romance the question is as to what one wants, if anything, beyond the here and now, as well to the intimate of the here and now itself. Some may be looking for only the best physical/sexual performance,. Then to exclude the much older may be to exclude some of the most able in the world. Some may be looking for genuine love, well, this commodity comes at all ages, There is predisposition in the mix, but there is also very considerable prejudice, as determined by the nature of language chosen.
Interesting philosophical question: Do dumbass guys buy obscenely large watches, or do obscenley large watches make a guy look like a dumbass? We get it, you're financially comfortable, but unless you are a member of the Kardashian family, you do not need that much bling.
9. God's will. Travis was also tentative when he first developed feelings for Leah. He explains that during his years at a Bible college, he gave his desire for a spouse over to the Lord and asked Him to determine who his wife would be.
A common rule of thumb, at least on the internet, is that it&rsquo s okay to be interested in someone &ldquo half your age plus seven&rdquo years. According to this rule, it would not be creepy for a 85 year old to date a 77 year-old, but an 68 year-old would be off-limits. Although this is a fun rule of thumb, what does research say about age preferences for potential mates?
After God prompted Travis to say the exact words Leah had been praying for, the answer seemed obvious. "God brought us together, and once we knew that, the other factors didn't really even matter. We wanted to be obedient to Him," he says. The couple still serves together in ministry and has two teenage sons.
But after all sorts of successes and failures with women, as time has gone on, I've found at least common failure: a massive age gap.