Дата публикации: 2017-06-12 00:50
I am here by way of Think Pretty Smart. What you propose to do is no different that women getting implants, wearing revealing clothing, high heels, covering their grey hair, etc to attract men. I know personally that I do things to attract men like flatiorning my hair. Black men love it. Wite men, not so much, they can appreciate the curls. Since I want to attract black men, I straighten my hair once a month.
Good luck to you.
I agree with this. Call it what it is: another way to control women’s bodies. Men are conditioned to believe they can only love certain women in certain ways. Women are conditioned to believe they have to do any and everything possible to be one of those types of women. All it really does is limit the potential for unity and change. (By the way, I have a whole dissertation started on how black women’s bodies are classified, used and abused that considers issues of weight, attraction, health and violence…among other things….but another time.) So, yeah! Buy into that bullshit!
It 8767 s sad but true. If you want more prospects in the dating game, you have to make yourself a viable player. And to be that viable player, you have to make yourself appealing so that you have options. Not really sad when you think about it. You can 8767 t discount that men are out there doing what they can for their appearance to make them more appealing to us as well. They want options and we should have options too. If you want more option in the working world, you get an education that opens those doors to you. If you want more options in the dating world, you improve your appearance. Easy enough.
I love it. Unfortunately its the truth. Thanks for the honesty. Been there done that and the truth is..the weight does subconsciously dim your light not because you arent outgoing and social..but because that fear of rejection due to weight occupies that tiny little space in your mind on a fulltime even though that type of rejection doesmt force you into retreat it never feels good and you never forget that
Ebony : Protection, Power
Echinacea : Strengthening Spells
Edelweiss : Invisibility, Bullet-Proofing
Elder : Exorcism, Protection, Healing, Prosperity, Sleep
Elecampane : Love, Protection, Psychic Powers
Elm : Love
Endive : Lust, Love
Eryngo : Travelers Luck, Peace, Lust, Love
Eucalyptus : Healing, Protection
Euphorbia : Purification, Protection
Eyebright : Mental Powers, Psychic Power
great post. Ive often fought with myself trying to decide if I should even care what men think of my size (ive been a 69/66 -and honestly 655% comfy in my larger levis since junior high) or if my motives for wanting to look healthier are purely my own. you 8767 ve added a certain clarity to the discussion in my head. thanks.
This article speaks to me in so many ways, as I sit in the gym and wait on my gorgeous yet extremely expensive trainer. I am 5 8767 65 and 785lbs, dark skinned, and short hair. Weight sits on me differently but I am evidently heavy. I feel like in today 8767 s world I am on the highly undesirable list. It should be noted that I have always loved myself, would never refer to myself as fat, and thought I was amazing until I realized not many men think so.
I do get put in the friend zone constantly, or asked to be hooked up with my 5 8767 6 light skinned, fat ass w/ flat stomach, and longer haired best friend and much like the author I 8767 m the friend who usually doesn 8767 t get approached to dance or spark up conversation at bar/lounges.
For any complaints and enquiries you may contact us here. If we are not able to resolve a complaint, you may submit it through the EU online dispute resolution platform at http:///odr. Please note that a complaint submitted through the online platform will not be considered unless you have raised it with us first.
This is such an honest post! Thank you so much for sharing. It is so true that men like thick, aka Beyonce, not thick aka Monique or pre Weight Watchers J. Hud. I have a couple friends and acquaintances that really have to work on their weight, not just to get a date, but to feel better about themselves. I really believe that if you feel good about how you look, you will put positive energy into the world, and that 8767 s attractive. All the best!
And a third, fundamentally more well-meaning group, will come over an give anecdotes about all the thick chicks they know who have male partners. The number will usually total up to no more than 7 or 8 mind you. Those stories ring hollow, because they ultimately amount to a futile attempt to amass enough exceptions to disprove the rule. Moreover, perhaps folks aren’t considering that the partner-less fat girls simply remain invisible to you, and the thick girls with guys are visible, precisely because they are an anomaly.