Дата публикации: 2017-10-13 06:44
But who 8767 s really to blame for all of this? There 8767 s a big difference between being there for her and trying to fix all her life 8767 s woes.
There is a deeper problem though. It 8767 s what is known as the 8775 Dark Triad 8776 . These traits are brought about in your partner by your neediness or codependancy, however, IT 8767 S NOT YOUR FAULT!!! Again, how you present yourself as needy is your responsibility, but it 8767 s your partners lack of integrity to use that vulnerability as an opportunity to abuse you by acting out in such negative ways.
Notice you said 8775 the NEED for emotional intimacy 8776 . This is why your partner struggles with you, it really has nothing to do with BPD :)
Words are weak. I also say this all the time. If you like to believe the words said by others, then you are Codependent. Haven 8767 t politicians told you to never trust the words of others? This is no different for every human on this planet, not just people with BPD.
Often, couples in this stage work on a project together – some kind of shared creative work that is intended to contribute to the world in some way . a business, a charity or a family.
If you happen to eat up all the praise and the seduction and the early commitment, that really makes you a victim again to your own insecurities. As I constantly teach in all of my articles and courses, if you have a weak ego you 8767 ll fall victim to this sort of thing.
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Keep providing your children through example the healthier contrast. Some may well follow in your ex 8767 s footsteps and there may not be anything you can do about it. Teach them to respect themselves and others and hope for the best.
I rarely ever sit on the couch and watch TV. If I do it 8767 s to develop new strategies and promotion, or read industry related stuff.
Actually, your guy is a psychopath. Clear as day. He 8767 s WAY beyond BPD as he should be locked up. 8775 I tried to establish boundaries in the beginning but he ignored them. I tried to break up with him in the beginning and he physically restrained me from leaving. 8776 You didn 8767 t have the strength to leave in the beginning, and now you are suffering for it. Why do you think my system is all about being STRONG AS FUCK?